265 | Phantom Smells, Thinning Hair, and Palm Beach Rules: The Midlife Truths You Need to Know + Weird Menopause Symptoms
- Heather Pettey

- Feb 11
- 2 min read
Have you ever smelled cigarette smoke when no one is lighting up or experienced other weird menopause symptoms? Do you wonder why your favorite 70-year-old socialite looks exactly like a 40-year-old? In this "Post-Ice Edition" of the Life Coach BFF Show, Heather Pettey and Dr. Carol Lynn are back to catch you up on everything you missed while hunkered down in the winter storms.
From the strange "phantom smells" of menopause to the strict fashion rules of Palm Beach high society, this episode is a whirlwind of laughter, medical insights, and midlife realizations. Whether you're navigating a "choke and poke" (the medical term will surprise you!), setting boundaries, or realizing that menopause actually happens to everyone, this episode is the ultimate catch-up with your best friends.

In this episode, we discuss:
The "Name Game": The professional and personal hurdles of changing names after marriage and remarriage.
Strange Menopause Symptoms: Why phantom smells (like cigarette smoke or worse) happen during hormonal shifts and post-COVID.
Palm Beach Etiquette: What the show Palm Royale (and real-life society) teaches us about boobs, knees, and "Old Palm Beach."
Life-Changing Shifts: Real feedback from our community on how divorce, pellets, retirement, and saying "no" improved their lives.
Expectation Management: The freedom that comes with releasing expectations of others.
Resources Mentioned in This Episode:
•TV Shows: Members Only: Palm Beach (Netflix discussion), Schitt’s Creek, and Mad Men.
Health: Discussion on Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT) and Pellets.
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